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My job as a partner is to constantly reinvent myself, maturely and without resentment or regret. Doing so not only makes my marriage better, it makes my life fuller and it makes me a better person as well as a better husband. If I didn¡¯t face and make these transitions, my wife wouldn¡¯t want me. Not because I wasn¡¯t a good guy, but because I didn¡¯t grow up.
From THE 6 HUSBANDS EVERY WIFE SHOULD HAVE by Dr. Steven Craig